tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381559858864563502.post8033846659828947475..comments2024-03-08T13:59:51.065+05:30Comments on La femme Nirvana: Love and Marriage - Chicken and egg ?Nirvanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05801881963638441875noreply@blogger.comBlogger70125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381559858864563502.post-14767342675344437292012-10-11T10:28:11.902+05:302012-10-11T10:28:11.902+05:30Annajohn .... thanks for coming by; and thanks for...Annajohn .... thanks for coming by; and thanks for the wishes too.Nirvanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05801881963638441875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381559858864563502.post-11825160916960697192012-10-10T21:35:02.751+05:302012-10-10T21:35:02.751+05:30Well, I must say I liked your analogies... Congrat...Well, I must say I liked your analogies... Congrats on your happy married life, by the way!<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381559858864563502.post-46032254284080638112012-10-08T10:05:03.837+05:302012-10-08T10:05:03.837+05:30Tejas - thank you so much for the wishes! The resu...Tejas - thank you so much for the wishes! The results are out, and I didn't win anything :-( ... but the fact that some people thought this was a good read more than made up for it!! Thanks once again!Nirvanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05801881963638441875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381559858864563502.post-1824905910302590782012-10-06T21:34:47.661+05:302012-10-06T21:34:47.661+05:30I just loved your hypothesis 2.You really have mad...I just loved your hypothesis 2.You really have made a point that love marriage do have a choice of divorce while in arranged marriages they really dont have an option because of less awareness,inferiority,tendency to adjust to everything,accepting everything and attributing everything to fate rather than accepting it as a mistake and moving on.I just hope you win as that will really make this article come into the limelight and will be read by a wider audience ! Tejas Deshpandehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12958182264036235387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381559858864563502.post-5723971869852623502012-10-06T21:34:05.022+05:302012-10-06T21:34:05.022+05:30This comment has been removed by the author.Tejas Deshpandehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12958182264036235387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381559858864563502.post-52310459331578314902012-10-06T17:58:42.829+05:302012-10-06T17:58:42.829+05:30Thank you for coming by, Manjulika. Quite a debata...Thank you for coming by, Manjulika. Quite a debatable topic, this is! And each one of us have had our experiences in this, wo a very popular topic too. Heheheh.... well, as far as I am concerned, I've been married too long to be classified into either of the two :-)Nirvanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05801881963638441875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381559858864563502.post-40529762418774861262012-10-06T14:56:20.639+05:302012-10-06T14:56:20.639+05:30Great write up... u have brought up quite many int...Great write up... u have brought up quite many interesting points and also most of them are generally those which are told by relatives once you mention about love marriage..<br /><br />I think yours was an arranged marriage but now u r enjoying a time no less than a happy love marriage... <br />have fun!!!manjulikahttp://manjulikapramod.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381559858864563502.post-90310700188207257162012-09-05T16:33:11.397+05:302012-09-05T16:33:11.397+05:30MV ... thank you! 'Woes and joys' ... nice...MV ... thank you! 'Woes and joys' ... nice ;-) Nirvanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05801881963638441875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381559858864563502.post-58026342174658204162012-09-04T16:46:32.849+05:302012-09-04T16:46:32.849+05:30Excellent portrayal of marriage and it's woes ...Excellent portrayal of marriage and it's woes and joys. <br />Supe.RioZeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00246956315902471176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381559858864563502.post-34918189599315002592012-08-30T12:52:51.283+05:302012-08-30T12:52:51.283+05:30Thank you for coming by, II .... and thanks for br...Thank you for coming by, II .... and thanks for bringing up the 'equals' point. You see, earlier, divorces were far lower than today for the simple reason that one spouse (usually the female) was much younger, much less educated, had very little financial independence, and was generally, taught to be second-to-the-pati-parmeshwar. Today, especially in urban setting, women demand the same privileges as the male spouse - i.e.... "I am back from office after a hard day too - so why should I be the one making chai for you....." etc..... makes sense?Nirvanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05801881963638441875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381559858864563502.post-24346321856916755612012-08-30T11:02:51.791+05:302012-08-30T11:02:51.791+05:30Hahaha...this was an extra ordinarily practical po...Hahaha...this was an extra ordinarily practical post.<br /><br />"love marriages are usually a match between equals." so true!! But I don't see why that should be a reason for it to end in divorce? And aren't today's "concerned relatives" web surfing for "a doctor for our doctor" or "an engineer for our engineer" ;)<br /><br />But anyways, loved the three "non-comparisons" and the way you present.. umm.. points? yea.. points...oh you get the idea :D<br />Will go through the rest of your posts shortly ;)Indolent Insomniachttp://imtoolazytothinkofaname.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381559858864563502.post-32249380842895247322012-08-29T14:00:46.087+05:302012-08-29T14:00:46.087+05:30Thank you so much OM .... that bit is my favourite...Thank you so much OM .... that bit is my favourite too - though G & I, both of us tend to forget it in the obsession to plan for the future!! Thanks for your wishes !Nirvanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05801881963638441875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381559858864563502.post-9626880397133826382012-08-29T13:59:46.510+05:302012-08-29T13:59:46.510+05:30Thank you Metherebel .... really? It sounded prett...Thank you Metherebel .... really? It sounded pretty tongue-in-cheek to me - maybe I am losing the touch! :-) <br />Thank you for the wishes!Nirvanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05801881963638441875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381559858864563502.post-87554089392681361002012-08-29T13:48:00.381+05:302012-08-29T13:48:00.381+05:30You have written it well. Not once did it sound cy...You have written it well. Not once did it sound cynical. Infact it was all truth.<br /><br />All the best for the contest :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381559858864563502.post-55733464883092817372012-08-28T18:29:09.968+05:302012-08-28T18:29:09.968+05:30Very well written. Absolutely loved the learnings ...Very well written. Absolutely loved the learnings at the end. My fav - It needs today as much as it needs tomorrow. So so true and so easy to forget. Good luck for the contest.Obsessivemomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06659233519392456624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381559858864563502.post-48204267451352069902012-08-27T09:40:25.907+05:302012-08-27T09:40:25.907+05:30Thank you Nabanita... Glad to have you here!Thank you Nabanita... Glad to have you here!Nirvanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05801881963638441875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381559858864563502.post-4416843044104239172012-08-27T09:38:38.543+05:302012-08-27T09:38:38.543+05:30Well.... same here! And you've got it going hi...Well.... same here! And you've got it going hilarously too! Thank you for coming by. Nirvanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05801881963638441875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381559858864563502.post-84596734120020224982012-08-26T20:58:57.838+05:302012-08-26T20:58:57.838+05:30What to say ... ? I absolutely loved it... Too goo...What to say ... ? I absolutely loved it... Too good!! Nabanitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05958307546734785806noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381559858864563502.post-59340685734494177012012-08-26T19:59:35.231+05:302012-08-26T19:59:35.231+05:30Very well done. Followed your link back here and w...Very well done. Followed your link back here and was grinning right through your post. Glad to have connected. Very few manage to tickle my funny bone...yeah I am a stickler that way. Will keep coming back for more! Good luck!BlogwatiGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11319993916725964373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381559858864563502.post-555143345798833432012-08-26T16:10:22.023+05:302012-08-26T16:10:22.023+05:30Thank you Jasmeet .... am honored you have decided...Thank you Jasmeet .... am honored you have decided to follow the blog!! Will be wonderful to have your viewpoints on the topics discussed here! Welcome aboard!Nirvanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05801881963638441875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381559858864563502.post-9071928304686111672012-08-26T16:08:53.173+05:302012-08-26T16:08:53.173+05:30TTT ... thanks for coming by... and glad you liked...TTT ... thanks for coming by... and glad you liked the humour!Nirvanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05801881963638441875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381559858864563502.post-61064456081398008912012-08-26T14:30:33.952+05:302012-08-26T14:30:33.952+05:30an excellent post indeed...
wish u good luck :)
an...an excellent post indeed...<br />wish u good luck :)<br />and m ur new follower right away :)<br />Jasmeethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05372066813045083252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381559858864563502.post-27939401814679224112012-08-26T10:14:58.310+05:302012-08-26T10:14:58.310+05:30chicken and egg indeed !!! very well written post ...chicken and egg indeed !!! very well written post ..I enjoyed the humor in the post ... All the very best ! TTThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10165759530468274168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381559858864563502.post-6132418431332314182012-08-25T11:37:32.204+05:302012-08-25T11:37:32.204+05:30Hi Nilanjan... welcome to the blog. I read your po...Hi Nilanjan... welcome to the blog. I read your post - the research you put in was superb! Looks like you went through a lot of old scriptures here!Nirvanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05801881963638441875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381559858864563502.post-43965309059660739712012-08-24T22:23:41.095+05:302012-08-24T22:23:41.095+05:30nice post
read mine too
http://amar-chinta.blogspo...nice post<br />read mine too<br />http://amar-chinta.blogspot.com/2012/08/arrange-marriage-outdated-approach.htmlnilanjanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04002965395682103068noreply@blogger.com